Letter: The Post Election Need For Safe Spaces

To the Editor: 

It’s been nearly a week since the election, and I’m still processing the shock and devastation. I feel both embarrassed and ashamed that our country has chosen to elevate a convicted felon and sexual predator to a leadership position—a person meant to represent the values of what many consider the greatest nation in the world.

I’m not naive. I understand the political leanings of this conservative community, where FJB flags fly openly, and a local business has been rotating divisive propaganda on its digital marquee since 2020. Knowing this, I initially chose to stay home for a few days, avoiding public spaces.

But when I finally ventured out, my first experience was jarring: a couple in a pickup truck aggressively tailgated me, honked as they passed, flipped me off, and yelled “F Kamala,” clearly reacting to my bumper sticker. At first, I felt unsafe and rattled. But then I reminded myself of my privilege as a white, cisgender, post-menopausal woman—a level of security and freedom that many others in our community do not share.

That moment clarified something for me. Instead of isolating myself or fantasizing about moving away, I realized my responsibility to stay and support those in my community who face even greater threats. Transgender and queer individuals, people of color, and women fighting for the right to make their own reproductive decisions need allies and safe spaces now more than ever.

As a local therapist, I am committed to being that safe space. I will continue to advocate for those who need resources and support, offering a refuge where they can find strength and solidarity. Together, we can build a more compassionate and inclusive community, even in the face of adversity.

Michelle Petz, LCSW

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